For someone who came to Mumbai more than four decades back
with nothing but a little amount of money (Rs. 18 as he puts it), “head start
in life” would have been the most alien term.
With no place of his own to stay, not much knowledge of the
local language or the national language, and no references, network or friend
circle, life would have shouted aloud – “Give up and go back home”.
It takes steely resolve and immense will power to stay on
and a lot of optimism to believe that tide will turn. But it does!
He did not have the option of going back as there was a
family of siblings and aging parents who needed the financial aid to stay
afloat.
He stayed for a while with a cousin brother and his family in
Navi Mumbai while working two shifts in Mumbai (one in Mumbai CST and other in
Tardeo). The shifts were from 9 to 5 and then 5 p.m. to 9 p.m. After this,
travelling back to Navi Mumbai is unfathomable even today with much better
transport systems available. So, doing it pre-1975 would have been nothing
short of a nightmare.
But he managed - to stay afloat and worship his work. With 100
per cent dedication, determination and discipline, he focused on the work that
came his way. He quickly got a house on rent and started staying independently.
If you are true to your work and respect it, your work will
definitely respect you back. His work did respect him back and how!
He went on to educate himself on managing the stores, excise
and supply chain division for chemical manufacturing companies. He put in 42
years of focused glorious service on display – a display which found immense
admirers in his colleagues and great respect from his seniors and owners of the
companies.
In the journey, he found a great companion in his wife. Both
of them worked immensely hard to take care of their children and the extended
families from their respective sides to the best extent they could.
The universe is kind to those that it doesn’t give options.
The tide did turn and he bought his own house in Mumbai, gave the best possible
education to his children though it was a very expensive one, and worked hard
with razor sharp focus to make ends meet. His constant support system is his
wife – who took immense care of the family and took tuitions to earn and
contribute to the family income.
As he retired yesterday, colleagues gave him a standing
ovation, a note of appreciation (which bears strong testimony to his work
ethics, professionalism and dependability) and lot of good wishes. A car was
arranged to drop him home from work and it speaks volumes about what he meant
to the company. Kudos to Dorf Ketal (his company) for this lovely gesture and for giving him
the opportunities to show what he is made of!
Four decades from when he stepped into this magical city,
life has now given up on throwing him more challenges. It is convinced that he
can overcome them with a smile! It’s time for him to now live for himself and
spend quality time with his wife and do the things that give him the most
happiness. Maybe a few vacations like the one seen in the picture below (they are at a place called Chamarel in Mauritius which is famous for its seven colored earth as seen in the background)
The “he” is my father and I am very proud of him and my
mother. They have shown the way on how to lead a great life and it is rather
impossible to imitate. However, it is nothing short of heroic to have achieved
a magnificent feat by consistently overcoming odds and moving ahead.
This is a tribute to him and the many millions (who travel
with you in trains and buses in Mumbai) like him; who live a self-less life to
ensure that life gives their children – a head start. Their stories, however,
are more often than not, untold!
4 comments:
Wow...what a journey... And what lively description... Wish him a happy new chapter...I wish I could also describe my parents journey as beautifully as you did...
Wow...what a journey... And what lively description... Wish him a happy new chapter...I wish I could also describe my parents journey as beautifully as you did...
Thanks for the wishes Deepali
Thanks for the wishes Deepali
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